Self Discovery

Clarity in My Life!

Happy being me!
Happy being me!

Clarity………What does that mean? The word itself is obvious but when used to reference my life, I was clueless. My computer, which is my brain, said, “Does Not Compute! WARNING! Does Not Compute!”

How do I gain clarity in my life? This question would leave me even more confused with so many thoughts, leaving me frustrated! Through my own journey of self discovery, which wasn’t easy, I gained clarity in my life.  The answer didn’t come to me instantly, of course.  It wasn’t till I saw a clear direction of my life and on that one day I realized I had clarity.

Until someone asked, “How did you get clarity?” This question left me dumbfounded.  I never really thought about it until I was asked.

At first I was afraid I wouldn’t be able to answer the question. However, after much thought, I found the answer…………BE PRESENT IN MY LIFE!!

I was a master at keeping myself distracted! All to avoid looking at my own reality. By not being present in my life, I was letting myself down and the people around me.  I left family and friends feeling unimportant which is not true at all. After all, they are in my Fab Five!

Needless to say, they never had the opportunity to enjoy all of me because I was keeping myself so busy to be the real me. I was Fearful of discovering someone I didn’t like.  What I discovered shocked me, I was afraid of leaving behind the only person I knew how to be……….a victim. I was a victim in my life.  Being present meant leaving my old self behind. 

The great news was Being Present in my life led me to my fabulous self!  Rather than being a victim in my life, I am now responsible for my life’s choice’s and direction.  Once I chose to be present in my life, the fog started to slowly lift in my head.  Much like real fog, it eventually dissipates and clear skies are revealed. That meant Clarity!

My life is an Adventure Now! I believe it isn’t till we become present in our lives that one can gain clarity!

Now I can truly appreciate the words of William Ernest Henley from his poem Invictus:



So are you ready to find clarity? Are you ready to start your adventure?

Let’s Work Together and gain the Clarity you DESIRE!

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